In a weird way, it's a romantic overture. When entering a restaurant, the rule is that the guy has to walk in first in order to clear the way, to watch out for thugs and drunks. Since men are not that good at multi-tasking and simultaneously holding the door open would be asking too much, the local girls are very apt at catching any doors before they hit their heads. The next time you see such an ill-matched couple and the guy is to your taste, don't hesitate to pounce on the girl, yelling "No!
This just isn't right! According to my theory, you shouldn't date this man. This also solves the problem of showing the right amount of assertiveness, and the guy will be totally impressed by your determination, to the point of being speechless.
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For example, as students, neither of us has the greater earning power, so it's hard to say who would pay for what. And hanging out in groups might be more prevalent with us who are still in uni, so it's hard to gauge interest. Thanks for the humor. Cheers to proving that Germans indeed can make jokes. Not sure about the arithmetic average and halving it though, but it's ok, you guys didn't do so well on the math section, according to the Pisa study.
But what was intended was that guys have a different system, at least from my experience. And here, it doesn't seem to be so much the case. So basically it seems that unless I ask "Do you like me? I saw a lady with a baby tram struggling through a door I met my husband at Uni. He told me about his current girlfriend while hanging out with me she was in the UK, we were in US.
Then he told me that he broke up with her.
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Then he came home for a family dinner with parents with me for Thanksgiving because Uni was closed and he had no place to go. That evening he came home to my place, after dinner with my parents with me and never left again. No sign of interest other than deep friendship before that. So, you know, I think German guys are deep.
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Or at least, mine was he is quite talkative in private and with friends now. There are no rules. If you're interested in going out on a date with a guy, then ask him out. Start with a cup of coffee at a little cafe and see how it goes. Generally the only doors which will be opened for you in Germany are automatic doors with sensors. Germany has never been known for its sense of fashion and beauty. Looks don't count as much as your bloodline and your parents' occupations. Being direct means forget about anything you've ever learned about etiquette, nuances and subtle gestures.
If you bat your eyes at a guy, he either won't notice or ask if you've got a problem with your contacts. Either Germany has changed that much since I left there, or you are not very nice scaring that poor Aveline. They are only shy and need a little encouragement. Most young German men are probably financially as hard up as you are and prefer to go dutch. But I don't believe that they would not hold the doors open when you sweetly smile at them.
I still open the doors for my wife and she is 75 years old and can be bossy as hell when she is home. I would not dare not holding the door open. Just keep smiling and be sweet as honey and the boys will float around sooner than later. At the low 20th most men are not ready to be hitched, so if that is your goal, look for the acquaintance of one who is not that athletic looking and a few years older and had a job for a few years. Good luck in your chase. Oh Gaberlunzi, I was talking about young, single, never married men.
After marriage, many German men can be trained up quite nicely. I am not a fan of the guy always paying on dates. I've always either taken turns or split the bill. I appreciate your advice, and yeah, Moonboot, I just have to enjoy being in a new culture. Bipa, your video link was hilarious, by the way. Even German guys in their early 20s may have had some experience dating women from outside of their country, so they should have some clue that women from the US may be used to some different practices.
In my experience, a German woman won't let a man pay the full bill on a first and subsequent dates even if he wants to those of us from US usually do , and she wants to explicitly discuss whether there is going to be a relationship rather than the two figuring it out from body language and other hints, so if that's what he's used to you know what to expect.
Some interesting questions, and some good answers.
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I'm out of my 20s now, but my German bf and I met while we were in your "target demographic", so I feel qualified to answer. Group things are very much the norm - hanging out with friends, getting to know people. You can find out about compatibility, shared interests, etc. Going out to dinner also isn't necessarily a date - male and female friends can go out together, enjoy time spent together, etc.
And splitting the bill is very normal - one person paying it all is very unusual here in my experience. If a girl lets the guy pay for a whole meal, she will often pay for it all the next time. Doors - yeah, get used to it As Bipa says, automatic doors here are your friend!
Unless they've spent a lot of time in another culture like living in the Southern US for a while , they are very unlikely to even think about opening doors for you - it isn't something that they've every been told to do or think about. I think in many ways this partially answers your last question as well. A friendship is more important to many people here than absolute attractiveness. It is more along the lines of the better you get to know someone, the more attractive you find them; a friendship chemistry leads to a physical chemistry. Posted 20 Feb My husband is a 10 and my mind may be a 10, but the exterior would be lucky to be a 6, I think;-.
I'm glad my husband fell in love with my conversation because he's certainly the hottie in our couple. I guess we are one of those couples OP looks at and wonders about. Yet, I'm pretty certain she wouldn't wonder if it were the other way around: But to my stupidity i kept telling him i want something serious other than one time sex ,he told me initially that he wants a companion not sex but you can know how stupid i am i kept telling him as if am desperate.
That he likes me and had a little feelings for me that he want to get clearer picture of everything. He said i should keep his number and maybe anytime i want to talk to him as a friend. That he appreciate the fact that i accepted his friendship. He said but you should not break your heart.
All these happen within some days and we have never met. Though we are in contact but dont know what to do. You will not be able to persuade them otherwise. For one, you will reduce their faith in their decisions if they were to re-decide, based on getting to know you sooner. I think that they have a precise idea of what they want and are going to let a woman please their ego with their attention, maybe sleep with her but maybe not, as they seem to really commit themselves to this looking for the one.
Sex would be limited to mutual masturbation or even less, uni directional. I would say…a German gives his heart at once or never will. I would advise you not to let yourself be in this position. Yes, you fell for him, but I am sure you have been here before and you know eventually you must admit defeat.
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Seriously, wait until a guy says wow, I must have you, you make me feel like I want to be here. Otherwise they really like a woman draining themselves for them. They sit back and drink it all up. Guys sadly date cause they are desperate for something physical But then they move on without having given of themselves. Get your own without giving your heart if you need that, but not with him. This sudden wanting to see you is probably a booty call.
He has said so. One has to wait until a guy is entirely tired of the game. We are all in the same boat! You will win the lottery first! I really appreciate the effort you did by replying me.