My first and only serious relationship was with someone else who had never dated or anything like that either though we were around at the time , and while she was a perfectly fine person, the relationship did not work at all. Neither of us knew "how to act" in a relationship and what we should expect from each other. Neither of us knew how to progress things, and as a result we pretty much never did. And frankly, I think she wasn't actually really interested in me romantically much at all, but either didn't realize it or was unwilling to act on it.
I don't mean this as any kind of attack on you, but if neither of you really expressed any romantic interest, was it really a serious relationship? Generally there has to at least be romantic interest if not love before it goes from dating even with monogamous commitment to something serious. It was a relationship that was at least a romantic one in theory.
In practice, it was a little weird like that.
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That sucks, well at least you gained some perspective from it. Hopefully something much less awkward is around the corner for you. With some women it can be incredibly frustrating because they have no context on what a relationship actually is. They just have a pile of horrible social conditioning that says. Reality is that all relationships have significant ups and downs and getting through the challenges is what makes them last. As others have said, it is charming to "teach" someone about relationships and experience everything along with them, but it is certainly a double-edged sword.
You have to meet sometimes extreme ideals that do not have a basis in reality. Or they get too attached and every detail has to have meaning and significance? That was me as a young, nubile 19 year old. I'm sorry to say I've had multiple relationships and quite a lot of them.
So when I get someone who has no experience or maybe even never had a real boyfriend its like peter said its charming, and cute in a way. Its almost like You can train the gal. Teach her your devious ways, grow and mold her into someone who will be able to come off as though they do have experience.
And then when you break up some other jerk gets to reap all the benefits of your time and effort. Not attacking you in any way. But don't you feel guilty about doing this?
I mean after awhile it just becomes a process and you've already destroyed so many chicks by this point. I had it done to me and was to weak to resist doing it to others. I'm ashamed of myself and will work to the day I did never to harm anyone emotionally and mentally like that again. Oh that's what I used to do, so I read that a bit differently than you probably ment it to say. You seriously fuck someone up when you do this.
I mean I've been told many times that it has to happen to everyone at some point, but being "the guy" that is looked back like a fucking monster by so many chicks gets fucking old quick. I'd rather build them up and let them go to some other guy before my real colors show and I end up taking over completely. Hurts man, fucking hurts. I didn't mean to imply that anyone in this thread was like me, just saying what was on my mind at the time. If a person has zero experience well into their 20s, they probably have social anxiety or awkwardness issues, and that is usually the hardest thing to deal with.
Often it breaks off because the more experienced partner feels more like a mentor or a parent than a partner. It's like a seige, lots of preparation and planning. Be prepared to get hurt a few times teeth on penis equal pain, squeezing balls to hard equal pain, and so on.
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Be prepared to get weird looks or comments you wanna put what and in where? Put that in my mouth but pee come from there? I don't know man, I've done a lot of research on losing your virginity, you know, just in case I do. And apparently it shouldn't hurt as long as the girl is relaxed, there's lots of foreplay, lube and you finger yourself first for a little while before you have sex. Every girl is different though and you did good to research this instead of jumping in head first. I have a female friend who said she used lube and did foreplay but it still hurt because of his penis width.
I'm kind of worried. I'm 24 and I've never dated or been in a serious relationship. I don't even have any friends that are women.
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I'm just so busy that I don't really try to get out there and date. I'm worried that when I graduate, I will have a hard time and women won't want to date me because of this. I'm curious what does an inexperienced person need to be 'taught' about relationships? We broke up on New Years. Most of the girls are clueless about how real relationships work, and think they work like a Disney movie: And sometimes there are songs.
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But I did meet one girl who was thoughtful, open-minded, and genuinely caring, and it's working out great. I dated this one chick who graduated from Harvard. Total bookworm type and man, was it eye opening. I won't do that again. However, I found out that he had sex with one other person during the phase of us hooking up regularly, but when we were not yet officially committed. I was wondering if you think that is okay and just part of college, or if that's shady?
I couldn't voice my discomfort when it was happening because I didn't know about it. Also, he is a senior and has a lot more experience than me, and sometimes when he talks about his past relationships or hookups I feel uncomfortable. He's definitely gotten around after four years of college, but I have only had sex with him so I feel like I can't have the same stories or talk about past experiences.
Part of me is obviously interested and wants to know, but I'm pretty sure its unhealthy to be thinking about all the shit your boyfriend has done with other girls. I'm really just looking for your opinion on what's normal in relationships and how I should personally deal with my feelings of jealousy and discomfort knowing that my boyfriend has had a lot of sexual relations in the past.
Just thinking about it makes me feel unsettled and I need advice on how to deal. As far as the shadiness of his earlier exploits, that all depends on perspective.