What might be important things to consider before pursuing this? November 14, 5: November 14, 6: November 14, 7: Having come from a family with divorced parents, I have this to say: November 14, 8: November 14, Also find out how she feels about the divorce and how it affects her outlook on marriage.
November 14, 1: Based on this thread and another recent thread I would say lior is anti divorce. November 16, 1: RebYidd23, there certainly are other possibilities. November 16, 3: November 26, 9: November 27, 3: November 27, 7: Sketch and barlev, Very true! November 30, 6: December 3, 1: December 3, 4: Adam harishon kind of was divorced.
Avraham avinu kind of was divorced. The Sridei Aish was divorced. The Bais Halevi was divorced. Moshe Rabeinu also, kind of was divorced. Rav Tzadok Hakohen was divorced. The Vilna Gaons daughter was divorced on his orders. Rav Malkiel Kotler got the heter meah rabonim. December 3, 5: That is the key. Unfortunately there is a lot of dysfunctional families even many that arent divorced. December 3, 6: Lior, why are you such a hater?
December 3, 7: Thank you for all your efforts and service! December 3, December 4, 1: December 22, 7: December 22, And people moan and weep about the shidduch crisis.
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December 25, 4: December 25, 7: December 25, December 25, 3: I thought the question mark at the end of your sentence was a typo. December 26, 1: December 26, 3: December 26, 9: Lesschumras, Is that your sad reality? Either married and dysfunctional or divorced? And getting divorced ends dysfunction? With that attitude, why get married at all? Plan to make a video on how I conquered ds problem on my anniversary.
My marriage has outlived my parents' n dats a big achievement for me. It all depends on the individual. The poster has very valid points that should not be ignored. The first marriage we all see is our parents marriage and what happened in our parents marriage will have a huge effect on our views on marriage. Our parents are the ones that will give us our first views on marriage and if they could get it soo wrong, then the quality of advice we get may not be the best.
My opinion is that find out what caused the divorce.
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Also find out if both parents have moved on or if they both still hate themselves with a passion. Find out whether or not the divorce was due to violence or adultery or other forms of abuse. My take is this avoid people from families that had very bitter divorces and the parents are still fighting each other. Truth is that these kind of parents use their children against each other and feed their children with horror stories about the other parent. You dont want to marry people with this kinds of baggage trust me.
Also, thread carefully if it was a very abusive marriage. Just dont ignore these kinda warning signals. While I will not say it is a no-no, but be careful when getting married to people from broken homes. Will you date or marry a person whose parents were a corrupt wealthy politician? Will you date or marry a super rich corrupt pastor? Will you date or marry a person who got wealthy investing in the stocks of an alcohol or cigaret manufacturing company?
Will you date or marry a person who got rich traveling abroad on tourist or student visa but stayed back there illegally to work? Will you date or marry a medical doctor who gained admission into a university through bribes? Will you date or marry a super-rich bank manager who got wealthy manipulating people's account? Will you date or marry a 'man-of-god' who hangs out with corrupt politicians and accepts financial gifts from criminals?
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If you wana judge people, there are many things to judge people on, and judge incorrigible not just in one aspect of life. At all times we must respect diversity and have respect for individuals no matter what their situation in life is. YES, I will date and marry a man whose parents were divorced if it's the will of God in my life, and he loves me. God bless you all. God bless you all And bless u too. I couldn't hv said it better. It is very easy to understand therefore i dont expect half bakeds to jump on the post or turn the thread into lala land.
Most children, if not all. Just like with any other kind of familial networks. How approahable is he or she?
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Is he or she able to maintain the necessary boundaries required to sustain both platonic and intimate relationships? I knew that real relationships were layered and full of complexities. Growing up and watching the layers of a marriage peel off taught me to create walls and manage my emotional investment well. No matter how serious things became, I dated with an emergency exit strategy in place.
My fear of heartbreak and divorce has made commitment both terrifying and difficult.
Every relationship I have been in focused on me trying to please the other person with little to no regard of myself and my own needs. Then, I would never be the one to end a relationship out of my fear of abandonment, no matter how unhealthy it was. These are the core issues I still face in my thirties. Even though I am aware of them, it is a hard habit to break when it is ingrained in your psyche. It felt selfish at first but now I am learning to do what makes me happy and not worry as much about trying to please others.
I found myself constantly double checking on the state of these relationships. I was very sensitive to little things that should not have mattered, such as needing reassurance that they loved me or still liked me.